This past weekend was the weekend
that is normally one of the best at Rhodes. When my coach has me talk to basketball
recruits about Rhodes and all of the exciting things that happen here in the
off season, Rites of Spring always comes up as probably the best weekend during
the school year. It’s full of all-day events, friends, and two free concerts
that normally include some big names. Yet, this rites weekend happened to hit
on the same day as another big showing of “rites”: The Memphis March for Our
Lives. This march, organized mostly by students through the Bridges foundation,
was in coordination with hundreds of other marches throughout the country in
response to the Parkland High School shooting that resulted in the death of 17
innocent students on Valentine’s Day. Of the crowd of 1500 people that marched
the streets of downtown Memphis, I was not one of them, and I regret it. While
people were fighting for the rights and privileges just to feel safe within their
school, most of the students at Rhodes (myself included) spent Friday and
Saturday enjoying the ability to not have those worries and not support those
that did.
Waking up Sunday morning after two
days of concerts and festivities, I looked at the pictures on my phone from the
weekend and felt the need to post some on Instagram for followers to see. It
was rites, after all! Everyone I follow needs to know I had a great time,
right? Scrolling through the feed of photos of my friends, I came across one of
four Rhodes students at the march downtown, with the caption, “rites.” I
instantly felt regret for putting myself above an entire country that felt the
pain of the events that happened at Parkland about a month ago. In that moment,
I felt the full force of being a middle-class, white, American woman attending
a fenced in, liberal arts school.
A “right” is defined in this
instance as “the power or privilege to which one is justly entitled.”2
It also can be defined as “the cause of truth or justice.” “Rite”, on the other
hand, is defined as “any customary observance or practice,” often used in a
religious or solemn manner.3 Going off of these definitions, is
Rites of Spring justly called a rite? And how much do we take advantage of our right as human beings lucky enough to attend
a really good college during this weekend. Rites of Spring is great and I know
I will enjoy it again next year. But this year was the first year, because of a
nation-wide March that coincided with rites, that I felt an immense amount of
guilt for the weekend. I could have easily shown support for both “rights” and “rites,”
and I choose only the first. I spent much of Sunday reflecting on my role in society.
Do the words of King right true today when he talks about the “white moderate,”
just as they did during the Civil Rights Movement? Am I doing my part and doing
what’s right?
2. "Right." Merriam-Webster.com.
Accessed March 26, 2018. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/right.
3. “Rite.” Dictionary.com. Dictionary.com Unabridged. Random House,
Inc. Accessed March 26, 2018. http://www.dictionary.com/browse/rite.